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Blando, John A., "Twice Hidden: Older Gay and Lesbian Couples, Friends, and Intimacy", Generations, Summer 2001 (Vol. 25, No. 2)
http://www.asaging.org/publications/dbase/GEN/Gen.25_2.Blando.pdf, Free
Blando's article is a bit scholarly and a bit old, but still a good source of information on this subject.
Burda, Joan M., Estate Planning for Same-Sex Couples
Gp Solo Aba, 2004, $59.00
http://www.amazon.com/Estate-Planning-Same-Sex-Couples-Burda/dp/1590313828/ref=sr_1_24?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1274892812&sr=1-24
Burda, addresses the specific estate planning issues that arise for same-sex relationships (also applicable to other unmarried people, including unmarried heterosexual couples, and sibling pairs or best friends who are living together in old age).
Clunis, Merilee, and Green, G. Dorsey, Lesbian Couples: A Guide to Creating Healthy Relationships
Seal Press, 2004, $16.95
http://www.amazon.com/Lesbian-Couples-Creating-Healthy-Relationships/dp/1580051316/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1276018529&sr=1-1#noop
Clunis and Green discuss commitment ceremonies and marriage, living arrangements, work, money, togetherness and separate identities, coming out to family and friends, resolving conflict and understanding each other.
Cohn, D'Vera, "How Accurate Are Counts of Same-Sex Couples", August 25, 2011
http://pewsocialtrends.org/2011/08/25/how-accurate-are-counts-of-same-sex-couples/?src=prc-headline, Free
Cohn analyzes the problems collecting data on same-sex couples, arguing persuasively that the 2010 U.S. Census has undercounted this population..
Improving the Lives of LGBT Older Adults
Movement Advancement Project (MAP) and Services & Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender Elders (SAGE), March 2010, Free
http://www.lgbtmap.org/file/advancing-equality-for-lgbt-elders.pdf
Among other findings: lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender older adults tend to be less financially secure, find it more difficult to achieve good health and get good health care, and are more likely to face social isolation.
Isensee, Rik, Love Between Men: Enhancing Intimacy and Resolving Conflicts in Gay Relationships
Backinprint, 2005, $17.95
http://www.amazon.com/Love-Between-Men-Enhancing-Relationships/dp/0595341462/ref=sr_1_31?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1276018348&sr=1-31
This book is for you, if you are a gay man and you’d like to improve your relationship and communicate better with your boyfriend, lover, or even your next date.
Watkins, Tom, "Aging Issues Can Be Tougher on Gays", CNN, May 14, 2010
http://www.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/wayoflife/03/17/gays.aging.problems/index.html, Free
Outlines some issues and strategies that relate to the legal situation of older same-sex couples.
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Appleby, Denise, "Five Retirement Planning Tips for Same Sex Couples", RetirementDictionary.com, 2009
http://www.retirementdictionary.com/articles/fiveretirementplanningtipssamesex41909, Free
Extra precautions same-sex couples must take to make sure their retirement plans are fail-safe.
Mock, Stephen Edward, et al, "Gay and Bisexual Men’s Disclosure of Sexual Orientation in the Workplace: Associations With Retirement Planning", Journal of Applied Gerontology, February 2011 (Vol. 30, No. 1)
http://jag.sagepub.com/content/30/1/123.abstract
The authors report that the more gay participants conceal sexual orientation, the more they engage in retirement financial planning.
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Knochel, Kelly A., et al, "Are Old Lesbian and Gay People Well Served? Understanding the Perceptions, Preparation, and Experiences of Aging Services Providers", Journal of Applied Gerontology, June 2011 (Vol. 30, No. 3)
http://jag.sagepub.com/content/30/3/370.abstract
The authors found that few agencies that participated in the study provide services targeted to the gay and lesbian population, and some agencies were unwilling to consider their unique needs.