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Body
Health Effect of Marriage and Other Social Relationships (Population Reference Bureau), June 1, 2000
http://www.prb.org/Journalists/Webcasts/2009/marriage.aspx, Free
Kent's 20-minute webcast interview with Linda Waite on the feects that marriage and social relationships have on health.
Hughes, Mary Elizabeth, and Waite, Linda J., "Marital Biography and Health at Mid-Life", Journal of Health and Social Behavior, September 2009 (Vol. 50, No. 3)
http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/asoca/jhsb/2009/00000050/00000003/art00007
Both the divorced and widowed who do not remarry show worse health than the currently married on all dimensions. Dimensions of health that seem to develop slowly show strong effects of past marital disruption, whereas others seem more sensitive to current marital status.
Liu, Hui, and Umberson, Debra J. , "The Times They Are a Changin': Marital Status and Health Differentials from 1972 to 2003", Journal of Health and Social Behavior, September 2008 (Vol. 49, No. 3)
http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/asoca/jhsb/2008/00000049/00000003/art00001
The authors find that the old bromide that married people are healthier than unmarried people still tends to be true for women, and that divorced and separated women are particularly susceptible. But the health gap between married and unmarried men is closing.
Noël-Miller, Claire, "Partner Caregiving in Older Cohabiting Couples", Journals of Gerontology Series B: Social Sciences, May 2011 (No. 66B, No. 3)
http://psychsocgerontology.oxfordjournals.org/content/66B/3/341.abstract
Noël-Miller found that older people are less likely to receive caregiving support from a co-habiting partner than from a marital partner, but that when they do receive such care, the level of effort is about the same.
Pinquart, Martin, and Sörensen, Silvia, "Spouses, Adult Children, and Children-in-Law as Caregivers of Older Adults: A Meta-analytic Comparison", Psychology and Aging, March 2011 (Vol. 26, No. 1)
http://psycnet.apa.org/index.cfm?fa=browsePA.volumes&jcode=pag
Pinquart and Sörensen compile results from 168 other studies, finding that spouse caregivers report more depression symptoms, greater financial and physical burden, and less psychological well-being, with greater distress among spouses explained mostly by higher levels of care provision.
Mind
Courter, Gay, and Gaudette, Pat, How to Survive Your Husband's Midlife Crisis: Strategies and Stories from the Midlife Wives Club
2003
http://www.amazon.com/Survive-Your-Husbands-Midlife-Crisis/dp/B000JMK8UG/ref=sr_1_5?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1282075502&sr=1-5
Courter and Gaudette offer stories, advice, resources, and a bit of humor.
Morin, Rich, and Cohn, D'Vera , Women Call the Shots at Home; Public Mixed on Gender Roles in Jobs
Pew Research Center, September 25, 2008
http://pewresearch.org/pubs/967/gender-power
Morin and Cohn's report shows that in married couples women tend to make more of the decisions, including financial ones.
Russell, David, "Living Arrangements, Social Integration, and Loneliness in Later Life: The Case of Physical Disability", Journal of Health and Social Behavior, December 2009 (Vol. 50, No. 4)
http://www.ingentaconnect.com/content/asoca/jhsb/2009/00000050/00000004/art00006
Russell's study reveals that older people living with a spouse are less lonely than those living with children or extended family, and that this difference is magnified for elders with disabilities.
Yogev, Sarah, For Better or for Worse...But Not for Lunch: Making Marriage Work in Retirement
Contemporary Booms, 2002, out of print
http://www.amazon.com/Better-Worse-But-Not-Lunch-Retirement/dp/0809297205/ref=sr_1_19?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1275089041&sr=1-19#_
Something of a classic on the psychological issues married couples have to deal with in retirement.
Heart
Soul
Vanarelli, Donald D., "Keeping Family Peace through Elder Mediation", Aging Well, September 2008
Vanarelli explains and promotes the concept of elder mediation.
Money
Home
Arp, David H., Empty Nesting: Reinventing Your Marriage When the Kids Leave Home
Jossey-Bass, 2001, $24.95
http://www.amazon.com/Empty-Nesting-Reinventing-Marriage-Leave/dp/0787960411/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1276261853&sr=1-7
The authors focus specifically on the effects of empty nest syndrome on the marriage.
Kemp, Candace L., "Negotiating Transitions in Later Life: Married Couples in Assisted Living", Journal of Applied Gerontology, 2008 (Vol. 27, No. 3)
http://jag.sagepub.com/cgi/content/abstract/27/3/231
This article presents an analysis of qualitative data from an exploratory study involving 20 married couples residing in assisted living facilities. Analysis considers couples' pathways and responses to assisted living.
Stritof, Sheri and Bob, "Empty Nest Syndrome in Your Marriage, The"
http://marriage.about.com/cs/midlife/a/emptynest.htm, Free
The Stritofs cover the main issues in a summary sort of way, and also provide some links to related issues.
Structure
Taylor, Roberta, and Mintzer, Dorian, Couples Retirement Puzzle, The: 10 Must-Have Conversations for Transitioning to the Second Half of Life
Lincoln Street Press, 2011
http://www.amazon.com/Couples-Retirement-Puzzle-Conversations-Transitioning/dp/1936498073/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1302879241&sr=8-1
A user-friendly guide offering couples a foundation for effective communication along with 10 important conversations including if, when and how to retire, to help them craft a shared vision for their second half of life together.
Taylor, Roberta, and Mintzer, Dorian, "Couples Retirement Puzzle, The: 10 Must-Have Conversations for Transitioning to the Second Half of Life", Integrative Adviser, September 2010 (Vol. 3, No. 3)
http://www.aiflp.org/pdfs/IntegrativeAdviserNo0303.pdf, Free
The authors highlight ten retirement issues and the unique ways in which being part of a couple affects how these issues are handled.